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Splitting & Fairness

Bill split calculator

Put in what each person ordered and you get two things: the tip, and what every one of you hands over — to the penny, adding up to the check exactly.

The tip is worked on the bill before tax, because that is what the Emily Post row says and almost no other splitter does it. Each line is marked sourced or house judgment, and who pays what is entirely ours.

Put in what each person ordered and what the check says — the tip and everyone’s share update as you go.

Who ate what

The tip

$24$136.00 before tax · $9.60 tax · $24.00 tip — $169.60 on the check

Leave $24, which is 17.5% of the $136.00 of food and drink and not of the $9.60 of tax. That puts $169.60 on the check. Each pays for what they ordered, so the 3 of you hand over $49.88, $39.91, $79.81 — which adds to the total exactly, with nothing left over for whoever is holding the card.

Why that muchAmount
15% of the bill before taxSourcedThe floor of Emily Post's published figure for this kind of service — "15-20%, pre-tax" — taken on $136.00, which is the food and drink and not the $9.60 of sales tax. Starting at the floor rather than in the middle is deliberate: everything added above this line is ours, and you can see each piece of it.$20
Service: good — they looked after usSourcedEmily Post publishes a band — 15-20%, pre-tax — and not a single figure, which means the room to move is theirs and the position inside it is ours. 17.5% of $136.00 sits inside that band, so the figure is still one they support.+$4
Tipping on the total instead of the foodSourcedNothing — and it is the most expensive nothing on this page. Emily Post's row is not "15-20%". It is "15-20%, pre-tax", and pre-tax is doing real work: sales tax is money the state took, not service anybody performed. Your check carries $9.60 of it, so tipping the same 17.5% on the after-tax total would have added $1.68 to the tip. Almost every bill splitter online reads "the bill" as the number at the bottom of the check and charges you that quietly.+$0
Who pays what: each pays for what they orderedHouse judgmentNothing, because it changes the split rather than the total — and because it is the half of this tool nobody publishes. Emily Post prices the table's tip and stops there; no publication we would cite says whether the person who had a salad should help with the wine. So the three rules in the dropdown are ours, they are all defensible, and the one you pick is on the ledger where the rest of the table can see it. The arithmetic under it is not a judgment at all: shares are apportioned to the cent so they add to $169.60 exactly.+$0
Food and drinks, before tax$136Sales tax, as billed$10Tip, at 17.5% of the pre-tax bill$24Total on the check, across 3 people$170

Informational only. Tipping in the US is customary rather than owed, and the amount is yours to set. The percentages are the Emily Post Institute’s — including the words pre-tax. What a service charge is, as against a tip, comes from the IRS and 29 CFR 531.55. Every line marked house judgment is ours — change it.

What each of you hands over

Each pays for what they ordered — and the shares add to $169.60 exactly, to the penny.

WhoPays
You$34.00 of their own, $6.00 as their share of the shared plates. Then $2.82 of tax and $7.06 of tip, in the same proportion.$49.88
Sam$26.00 of their own, $6.00 as their share of the shared plates. Then $2.26 of tax and $5.65 of tip, in the same proportion.$39.91
Priya$31.00 of their own, $6.00 as their share of the shared plates, $27.00 of drinks. Then $4.52 of tax and $11.29 of tip, in the same proportion.$79.81
Total on the check$169.60

Methodology

This tool runs the Kindhow Scale, version 1.0, and it is the first one here that splits into two answers with different provenance. The tip is a published figure applied a published way. The split is ours from top to bottom, because nobody publishes one. Those are separate surfaces on the page for exactly that reason.

The formula

the tip, once, for the table:

  sit-down     15% of the bill BEFORE TAX      sourced (Emily Post)
  bar tab      the larger of 15% or $1/drink   sourced (Emily Post)
  buffet       10% before tax, no band         sourced (Emily Post)
  counter      nothing; 10% if curbside or
               large and complicated           sourced (Emily Post)

  + where in the band the service puts you     judgment — and it retags
                                               itself if it leaves the band

  sales tax                              $0    sourced — "pre-tax" is
                                               the guide's own word
  a service charge already on the check   −$    sourced — the IRS says a
                                               payment is a tip only if you
                                               chose it and set it

  ─────────────
  = whole dollars

then the split, which is entirely ours:

  each pays their own / everyone even / food even and drinks their own
  tax and tip apportioned in the same proportion
  whole cents, largest remainder — the shares add to the check exactly

Two words nobody quotes — sourced

The Emily Post Institute’s General Tipping Guide does not say 15–20%. Its Wait Service (Sit Down) row says “15-20%, pre-tax”, and its buffet row says “10%, pre-tax”. Those last two words are the whole difference between this tool and the hundred bill splitters that already exist, and they are dropped so consistently that most people have never seen them.

It matters because sales tax is not service. Nobody at the restaurant cooked it, carried it or cleared it — the state collected it, and a percentage tipped on top of it is a tip on a tax. On the worked example above that is $9.60 of tax on a $136.00 dinner: tipping 17.5% on the after-tax total adds $1.68 to the tip and none of it reaches anybody differently. Type your tax into the box and the ledger prints that number on a line at $0, which is the only place on the internet you are likely to see it.

One consequence worth naming: this tool will usually give you a smaller number than the tablet at the counter or the suggested-tip row on your receipt. That is not us being stingy, and it is not a judgment call. It is the published figure applied to the base the publication named.

The service you had picks the rule, not the percentage

The same guide prices four different situations four different ways, and the differences are structural rather than numeric. A band has room to move inside it; a single figure does not. A row that opens with “no obligation” is not a smaller version of one that does not.

What you hadThe row, verbatimWe start atRoom to move
Sit-down, someone waited on you15-20%, pre-tax15%up to 20%
At the bar, on a tab$1-2 per drink or 15-20% of the tab15%up to 20%
Buffet, someone cleared and refilled10%, pre-tax10%none — it is one figure
Counter service or takeoutNo obligation; 10% for extra service (curb delivery) or a large, complicated ordernothing10%, for the two cases the row names

We start at the floor of a band rather than in the middle, which is the same decision the delivery tip calculator makes and for the same reason: everything above the floor is ours, and starting low is what keeps each of those additions visible as its own line instead of hidden inside a number that was already generous before you told it anything.

The bar row is the one that prices the same tab twice — “$1-2 per drink or 15-20% of the tab” — so on a short round of cheap drinks the per-drink figure comes out larger than the percentage. The tool computes both, takes the larger, and says on the ledger which of the two rules won. Both figures are Emily Post’s; taking the larger is the only part of it that is ours.

Where in the band — and where the band ends

The service control moves you between the floor and the ceiling of whatever band applies. The band is published; the position inside it is not, so that line reads sourced while the resulting percentage is still inside the published range, and retags itself house judgment the moment it is not. There is exactly one setting that leaves the band — “it was genuinely bad”, which drops five points under Emily Post’s floor — and it is the only setting on this tool whose tag is computed rather than declared. The same discipline runs the teacher gift calculator.

How it wentWhere that lands in 15–20%Tag
It was genuinely bad10%house judgment — under the floor
Fine — nothing to report15%sourced
Good — they looked after us17.5%sourced
Excellent, or we camped at the table20%sourced

A service charge is not a tip — and it never was

The automatic 18% on a party of six is the single most common reason somebody tips twice. It is not a tip, and two federal authorities say so in almost the same words. The IRS puts the test plainly: “A payment is a tip only if the customer voluntarily decides to pay it and determines the amount.” A charge the restaurant added, at a percentage the restaurant set, is neither — so it is a service charge, and service charges “when distributed to an employee, are generally treated as wages paid by the employer to the employee rather than tips paid by the customer.” 29 CFR 531.55(a) says the same for wage purposes — a compulsory charge “is not a tip” — and 531.55(b) puts such sums into “the employer’s gross receipts.”

So type it in and the tip line goes to nothing while the charge stays on the ledger where you can see it. On the worked example a $24.48 charge leaves $0 more to give. It is the same authority the salon tool uses on a salon’s service fee and the wedding vendor tool uses on “gratuity included”, and this is its sixth outing on the site. One thing the tool does differently here: if the charge lands below the published floor, it tops up to the floor rather than zeroing, because that remainder is still Emily Post’s figure and not ours.

The split is ours — all of it

Emily Post prices the table’s tip and stops there. No publication we would cite says whether the person who had a salad should help pay for the wine, and we are not going to invent one. So the split is a control with three stated rules, all three defensible, and the one you pick is printed on the ledger where the rest of the table can read it.

RuleWhat it doesSmallest share, worked example
Each pays for what they orderedOwn items, an even share of the shared plates, then tax and tip in the same proportion.Sam$39.91
Split the whole check evenlyThe whole check divided by however many of you there are.Sam$56.53
Food split evenly, drinks charged to whoever drank themFood and shared plates even; alcohol charged to whoever ordered it. The wine compromise.Sam$45.30

The arithmetic underneath the rule is not a judgment at all, and it is the one part of this site with a right answer. Shares are apportioned in whole cents by largest remainder — the method used to apportion legislative seats — so they sum to the check exactly rather than leaving a few cents on whoever happens to be holding the card. Three people splitting $169.60 get $49.88, $39.91, $79.81, and that adds up. Tax and tip are apportioned in the same proportion as each person’s share of the food, which is why the one expensive dish carries its own tax and its own tip rather than the table carrying it for them.

What this tool will not do

  • It will not tell you a tip is required. Tipping in the US is customary, not owed, and every line is yours to change. It also will not lecture you about it in either direction — the low setting is on the ledger with its tag computed honestly, not hidden.
  • It cannot read your check. It reports what you type. If a line on your bill is ambiguous — a “kitchen appreciation fee”, a “wellness charge” — the tool has no way to know whether it reaches anybody, and the honest place to ask is the restaurant.
  • It does not decide who is right at your table. The three split rules produce genuinely different numbers, and the difference between them is a conversation about your friendship rather than a calculation. We show all three and label them ours.
  • It is US-only. The percentages are American, service charges are treated very differently elsewhere, and in a great many countries the correct answer to all of this is a polite no.

Sources

Informational only, not professional advice. The Kindhow Scale is a published model, not a standard, and every line marked house judgment — which is the whole of the split — is our reasoning and nothing more. Nothing here is tax, legal or employment advice: the IRS and wage rules are quoted to explain what a charge on your check is, not to tell you, a restaurant or a server how to treat one. Last reviewed: August 2026. Scale version 1.0. Figures that come from a publication are re-checked against their source on a monthly cycle; when one moves, the version number moves with it.

Frequently asked questions

Do you tip on the total or before tax?

Before tax, and it is not a close call — the guide says so in the row itself. The Emily Post Institute's General Tipping Guide does not print "15-20%" for table service. It prints "15-20%, pre-tax", and its buffet row prints "10%, pre-tax". Sales tax is money the state collected; nobody at the restaurant performed it. On the worked example in this tool that is $9.60 of tax on a $136.00 dinner, so tipping the same 17.5% on the after-tax total would add $1.68 to the tip. It is small on one dinner and it is not small over a year, and the reason almost every calculator online does it is that they read "the bill" as the number printed at the bottom of the check. This one puts a $0 line on the ledger showing you exactly what that habit costs.

The restaurant added an 18% service charge for our party. Do we still tip?

Not on top of it, no — and it is worth knowing what that charge actually is, because it is not a tip. The IRS' test is that "a payment is a tip only if the customer voluntarily decides to pay it and determines the amount." A charge the restaurant added for a party of six is neither voluntary nor yours to set, so the IRS treats it as a service charge: "generally treated as wages paid by the employer to the employee rather than tips paid by the customer." The federal wage rule agrees — 29 CFR 531.55(a) says a compulsory charge "is not a tip" and 531.55(b) puts it into "the employer's gross receipts." Type the charge into this tool and the tip line drops to nothing while the charge stays visible on the ledger. One exception the tool handles for you: if the charge lands below the published floor, it tops it up to the floor rather than zeroing, because that remainder is still Emily Post's figure.

How do you split a bill fairly when one person ordered much more?

There is no published answer, so this tool gives you three rules and says out loud that all three are ours. "Each pays for what they ordered" charges every person their own items, splits the shared plates evenly, and then apportions the tax and the tip in the same proportion — the one $80 steak carries its own tax and its own tip. "Split the whole check evenly" is the simplest and the one that quietly moves money from the salad to the steak: on the worked example here it moves the smallest share from $39.91 to $56.53. "Food split evenly, drinks charged to whoever drank them" is the compromise most tables actually want, because the argument is almost always about the wine. Whichever you pick, the shares are apportioned to the cent by largest remainder, so they add to the check exactly — no missing dollar landing on whoever holds the card.

How much do you tip at a buffet, or for takeout?

Less than at a table, and the guide is specific about both. Emily Post's Wait Service (Buffet) row is "10%, pre-tax" — a single figure rather than a band, because someone is clearing and refilling rather than taking your order and running it. There is no room to move inside a single figure, so this tool does not offer you one: pick buffet and the service control disappears rather than pretending a 10% figure has a top end. The Take Out row is blunter still: "No obligation; 10% for extra service (curb delivery) or a large, complicated order." So counter service starts at nothing, and the 10% is an exception the guide itself names, not a default. That is one of the more useful things on the page, because the tablet spinning around at a counter does not tell you any of it.

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